(This product is an MP3 download) By Wayne Scott Frieden, M.Ed. and Marie Hartwell-Walker, Ed.D. Family Songs are a collection of 7 songs that describe the plusses and minuses of various birth order positions. Birth order position is certainly not destiny. But where we are in our family of origin and what we choose to do about it can inform how we relate to others throughout life. The songs are a fun way to initiate talk about abstract issues like personality, identity, self-esteem, and our ability to decide what kind of person we would like to be.